@Former-Memberyour comments about being prepared were very timely,
I have been reflecting on what I can do better moving forward to support my darling.
Have some good infomation from the help centre this afternoon about creating an action plan, going to be discussing this with the couples councillor tomorrow.
My thoughts are all over the place at the moment so not sure quite how to articulate how I am feelng.
My biggest concern at the moment is that what happened on the weekend is not being acknowledged as a genuine attempt. The treating professionals can only go by what they are being told granted but I would have hoped they could do a better job of reading between the lines. she was telling them what she thought they wanted to hear so she could go home.
I have managed to have a discussion with my darling this afternon and with her permission I am going to be more direct in telling pdoc what I think.
I also feel uncomfotable that I was not consuted or given any feedback.... I heard the nurses discussing during shift handover that it was not a genuine attempt but she just wanted to zone out for a bit. noone even told me that was their conclusion or asked if I was ok with it. I suspected and she confirmed this afternoon that she thought it would be a peacful final solution, the reality was quite different. The level of care at the hospital was high, I cant complain about that at all they were great overall, just lacking in that regard.
the pdoc on Tuesday kind of left things hanging, there was no discussion about what we are doing to stay safe, Another appointment with him next Tuesday if darling dosent cancel it.
